Do you need to compete with your neighbours , work colleagues or family ?
If so ask yourself why.
Is your goal monetary in life or happiness ?
What is the bottom line , what is really important to you ?
The acquisition of material rewards how important is this to you ?
Do you need to value yourself by the standards of others ?
Is it any of your business what others think of you ?
Why do you let it bother you ?
Do their opinions really count and define who you are ?
Have you given your power away to others ?
Do you need approval from others , like fathers and mothers ?
What beliefs do you have that are not yours but thrust upon you ?
What makes you smile , remember it !
What makes you laugh out loud ?